If you're straight you shouldn't have to defend yourself and if you're gay you shouldn't either. She just wasn't willing to admit it to herself yet.ĭo you get frustrated when someone assumes your gay or that you think someone of the same sex is attractive? Do you go out of your way to make sure you dress like someone who is straight would dress? Do you find yourself putting on a front? Why is that? What she didn't realize, is that she was gay. My friend went as far as growing her hair out so that she could avoid this issue. She would go on and on after we left about how she 'wasn't gay' and didn't know why 'she just assumes that I'm gay because I have short hair. We would go out as a group, and the waitress at one restaurant would always try to pick her up. They assume you're gay for whatever reason and you get so frustrated! Do you get frustrated when people assume that you're gay? And it's not because you are a man who can dress well or a woman who loves sports and is athletic.
